Wednesday, December 25, 2024

"men of intemperate minds cannot be free. Their passions forge their fetters."

" Men are qualified for civil liberty in exact proportion to their disposition to put moral chains upon their own appetites, — in proportion as their love to justice is above their rapacity,—in proportion as their soundness and sobriety of understanding is above their vanity and presumption,—in proportion as they are more disposed to listen to the counsels of the wise and good, in preference to the flattery of knaves. Society cannot exist, unless a controlling power upon will and appetite be placed somewhere; and the less of it there is within, the more there must be without. It is ordained in the eternal constitution of things, that men of intemperate minds cannot be free. Their passions forge their fetters."

Edmund Burke, A Letter to a Member of the National Assembly (Revolution and Romanticism, 1789-1834)

Seen at https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/293641-men-are-qualified-for-civil-liberty-in-exact-proportion-to 

When a man shuns effort, he is in no position to resist temptation

"When a man shuns effort, he is in no position to resist temptation. So, through all the ages, idleness has been known as the parent of all the vices."


(David Starr Jordan, The Strength of Being Clean [New York and Boston: H.M. Caldwell Co., 1900], pp. 18–19.), as quoted in "The Nobility of Man in Choosing Good over Evil" by Elder Alvin R. Dyer, Assistant to the Council of the Twelve, General Conference, October 1971, https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/1971/10/the-nobility-of-man-in-choosing-good-over-evil?lang=eng 

Thursday, December 5, 2024

Our dear departed ones know our thoughts and feelings

 "Our deceased family and friends are not gone, neither are they far, far away in some distant heaven. The Prophet Joseph Smith taught, “They are not far from us, and know and understand our thoughts, feelings, and motions, and are often pained therewith.” [11] Brigham Young taught that the spirit world is right here on this earth, [12] and Parley P. Pratt gave an extensive explanation for how and why that is the case[13] Joseph F. Smith said: “I believe we move and have our being in the presence of heavenly messengers and of heavenly beings. We are not separate from them. . . . We are closely related to our kindred, to our ancestors, to our friends and associates and co-laborers who have preceded us into the spirit world.” [14] " 


What’s on the Other Side?

A Conversation with Brent L. Top on the Spirit World

Brent L. Top and R. Devan Jensen

https://rsc.byu.edu/vol-14-no-2-2013/whats-other-side#_noteref-12

Thursday, November 21, 2024

How to Communicate Support to Your Missionary Son or Daughter

 

How to Communicate Support to Your Missionary Son or Daughter

By London Brimhall

Church Magazines

https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/liahona/2024/08/15-how-to-communicate-support-to-your-missionary-son-or-daughter?lang=eng

How to invite and recognize the Spirit

When seeking the Spirit and personal revelation, it’s important to do so within the correct framework. Quoting Preach My Gospel, Elder [Gary E.] Stevenson said: “‘Having the guidance of the Holy Ghost in your life requires spiritual work. This work includes fervent prayer and consistent scripture study. It also includes keeping your covenants and God’s commandments. … It includes worthily partaking of the sacrament each week’ [Preach My Gospel, 101].”

He then provided four additional guiding principles for “inviting and recognizing the promptings of the Spirit”:

  1. 1. Stand in Holy Places: “Our temples and homes are the most sacred of these dedicated spaces.”
  2. 2. Stand with Holy People: “If you hope to feel the Spirit, be with people with whom the Spirit can easily dwell.”

  3. 3. Testify of Holy Truths: “The Comforter always shares his voice when we testify with our voice.”

  4. 4. Listen to the Holy Spirit: “He speaks in subtle, quiet tones. … Find a quiet place, a holy space where you can seek to receive direction from the Spirit.”

 

As quoted in 

When Spiritual Experiences Are Different from What You Expected

Seeing your body as your temple can positively influence your decisions about how you will care for your body and how you will use it

 “Each time you look in the mirror, see your body as your temple. That truth—refreshed gratefully each day—can positively influence your decisions about how you will care for your body and how you will use it.”

"Decisions for Eternity"

By Elder Russell M. Nelson

Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles


https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2013/10/decisions-for-eternity?lang=eng

What Can I Say to Others about the Temple?

This entire article:  "What Can I Say to Others about the Temple?"

By Jessica Anne Lawrence, Church Magazines

https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/liahona/2024/08/07-what-can-i-say-to-others-about-the-temple?lang=eng


Key snippet: 


For example, we can share that “an endowment is literally a ‘gift.’” The temple endowment is a gift of sacred blessings from God to each of us, and some of those blessings include:


1. “Greater knowledge of the Lord’s purposes and teachings.

2. “Power to do all that God wants us to do.

3. “Divine guidance and protection as we serve the Lord, our families, and others.

4. “Increased hope, comfort, and peace.

5. “Promised blessings now and forever.”

We can also talk about the covenants we make in the temple. The beautiful thing about the temple is that it allows us to draw closer to God and strengthen our relationship with Him by making additional promises with Him. These covenants are:

  • “Law of Obedience, which includes striving to keep God’s commandments.
  • “Law of Sacrifice, which means doing all we can to support the Lord’s work and repenting with a broken heart and contrite spirit.
  • “Law of the Gospel, which is the higher law that He taught while He was on the earth.
  • “Law of Chastity, which means that we have sexual relations only with the person to whom we are legally and lawfully wedded according to God’s law.
  • “Law of Consecration, which means dedicating our time, talents, and everything with which the Lord has blessed us to building up Jesus Christ’s Church on the earth.”


Sunday, August 11, 2024

We should not make it too expensive emotionally for others to try to communicate with us

"We ought to build a climate around us in which we are, in all situations, open to the comments of others. We should not make it too expensive emotionally for others to try to communicate with us. If it is too hard to do so, people will just pull back. If we are too well protected and too well defended, they are not going to extend themselves overmuch in an effort to communicate with us. It is difficult to say which is most dangerous—the mote in one's eye or the moat around his "castle" that keeps out the needed communications, involving correction, counsel, or commendation."

⁠— Neal A. Maxwell, as heard quoted on the Follow Him podcast, https://podscripts.co/podcasts/follow-him-a-come-follow-me-podcast/alma-43-52-part-2-david-boren-august-12-18-come-follow-me , and found more fully at https://qtmp.com/quote/9P3 on 11 Aug 2024

Thursday, May 16, 2024

 "The restored gospel of Jesus Christ is, first, foremost, and forever, the source of lasting happiness, true peace, and joy for everyone in these latter days."

- President Jeffrey R. Holland, Acting President of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, "The Savior of All, a Gospel for All," Liahona, March 2024

https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/liahona/2024/03/03-the-savior-of-all-a-gospel-for-all?lang=eng


Now is the time to change

 "If you are serious about helping to gather Israel and about building relationships that will last throughout the eternities, now is the time to lay aside bitterness. Now is the time to cease insisting that it is your way or no way. Now is the time to stop doing things that make others walk on eggshells for fear of upsetting you. Now is the time to bury your weapons of war. If your verbal arsenal is filled with insults and accusations, now is the time to put them away. You will arise as a spiritually strong man or woman of Christ."

- President Russell M. Nelson, President of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, "Peacemakers Needed," General Conference, April 2023

Receiving a testimony line upon line

“When I as a boy first started out in the ministry, I would frequently go out and ask the Lord to show me some marvelous thing, in order that I might receive a testimony. But the Lord withheld marvels from me, and showed me the truth, line upon line, precept upon precept, here a little and there a little, until he made me to know the truth from the crown of my head to the soles of my feet, and until doubt and fear had been absolutely purged from me. He did not have to send an angel from the heavens to do this, nor did he have to speak with the trump of an archangel. By the whisperings of the still small voice of the Spirit of the living God, he gave to me the testimony I possess. And by this principle and power he will give to all the children of men a knowledge of the truth that will stay with them.”

- Joseph F. Smith, as quoted in https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/liahona/2024/04/come-follow-me/20-receiving-revelation-until-our-faith-in-the-lord-becomes-unshaken?lang=eng 

The Savior holds our children blameless for our parental mistakes

 "As any parent can testify, the pain associated with our mistakes is not simply the fear of our own punishment but the fear that we may have limited our children’s joy or in some way hindered them from seeing and understanding the truth. The glorious promise of the Savior’s atoning sacrifice is that as far as our mistakes as parents are concerned, He holds our children blameless and promises healing for them. And even when they have sinned against the light—as we all do—His arm of mercy is outstretched, and He will redeem them if they will but look to Him and live."

- Elder James R. Rasband, Of the Seventy, "Ensuring a Righteous Judgment," General Conference, April 2020

https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2020/04/13rasband?lang=eng 

Sunday, November 26, 2023

God answers prayer poem

 

I know not by what methods rare

But this I know, God answers prayer.

I know that He has given His Word,

Which tells me prayer is always heard,

And will be answered, soon or late.

And so I pray and calmly wait.

I know not if the blessing sought

Will come in just the way I thought;

But leave my prayers with Him alone,

Whose will is wiser than my own,

Assured that He will grant my quest,

Or send some answer far more blest.

(Eliza M. Hickok, “Prayer,” The Best Loved Religious Poems, ed. James Gilchrist Lawson, New York: Fleming H. Revell Co., 1933, p. 160.)

As quoted in "Back to Gospel Basics" By Elder L. Tom Perry Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, General Conference, April 1993

https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/1993/04/back-to-gospel-basics?lang=eng 

Saturday, October 28, 2023

"Education involves the preparing of the person, and that is usually what matters—more than the particular calisthenics that are used."

- Neal A. Maxwell, Assistant to the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, "Taking up the Cross", BYU Devotional, January 4, 1976

https://speeches.byu.edu/talks/neal-a-maxwell/taking-cross/

Monday, July 31, 2023

"How Do I Recognize the Spirit?"

The Liahona Magazine, June 2023

How Do I Recognize the Spirit?

Mark A. Mathews



President Russell M. Nelson taught, “It has never been more imperative to know how the Spirit speaks to you than right now.”1 And yet many still wonder, how do I recognize the Spirit? This is a question that I have been asked repeatedly as a teacher at the missionary training center, for Seminaries and Institutes, and at Brigham Young University. Fortunately, the Lord Jesus Christ has answered this question in the scriptures and the teachings of modern prophets.

The Apostle Paul taught the Corinthians that “the things of God knoweth no man, except he has the Spirit of God” (Joseph Smith Translation, 1 Corinthians 2:11 [in 1 Corinthians 2:11, footnote c]). Because spiritual truths are not typically seen with our natural eyes, they cannot be learned with our natural senses or intellect alone. As a result, we can only come to know them by the Spirit (see 1 Corinthians 2:9–10). The Holy Ghost must confirm them to us (see Moroni 10:4).

“The things of God knoweth no man, except he has the Spirit of God.”

This is why it is vital that each of us learn for ourselves how to recognize and rely on the Spirit to know the truth.2 As President Boyd K. Packer (1924–2015), President of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, taught, “If all you know is what you see with your natural eyes and hear with your natural ears, then you will not know very much.”3

To guide us in recognizing His Spirit, the Lord has provided the following descriptions:

“Peace to your mind.” To help Oliver Cowdery recognize the Spirit, the Lord asked, “Did I not speak peace to your mind concerning the matter?” (Doctrine and Covenants 6:23).4 Elder Richard G. Scott (1928–2015) of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles explained: “The feeling of peace is the most common confirming witness that I personally experience. When I have been very concerned about an important matter, struggling to resolve it without success, I continued those efforts in faith. Later, an all-pervading peace has come, settling my concerns, as He has promised.”5

“In your mind and in your heart.” On another occasion, the Lord gave this description of revelation: “I will tell you in your mind and in your heart, by the Holy Ghost. … This is the spirit of revelation” (Doctrine and Covenants 8:2–3). Commenting on this, Elder David A. Bednar of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles taught, “The Lord indicates [here] that revelation frequently comes as thoughts to the mind and feelings to the heart.”6

These inspired thoughts and feelings can “enlighten your mind” (Doctrine and Covenants 11:13) and cause your heart to “be filled with joy” (Mosiah 4:20). The Prophet Joseph Smith explained that the “first intimation of the spirit of revelation” is when you “feel pure intelligence flowing into you,” giving you “sudden strokes of ideas.”7

“Heart burn within us.” Reflecting on being taught by the resurrected Christ, two of His disciples said, “Did not our heart burn within us, while he talked with us by the way, and while he opened to us the scriptures?” (Luke 24:32). Similarly, Jesus Christ told Oliver Cowdery, “I will cause that your bosom shall burn within you” to confirm truth (Doctrine and Covenants 9:8; see also 3 Nephi 11:3). President Dallin H. Oaks, First Counselor in the First Presidency, explained that this “is not a feeling of caloric heat like combustion but a feeling of peace and warmth and serenity and goodness.”8

“Feel that it is right.” Jesus Christ taught Oliver Cowdery that he would know something was true by the Spirit because he would “feel that it is right” (Doctrine and Covenants 9:8). Elder Scott interpreted this to mean that “the answer comes as a feeling with an accompanying conviction.”9

“A still small voice.” The Lord taught Elijah that He does not usually speak dramatically through fire, whirlwinds, and earthquakes, but more often His spiritual communication is subtle through “a still small voice” (1 Kings 19:12).10 This spiritual voice is like “a whisper” that pierces “to the very soul” (Helaman 5:30), and “even though it is described as a voice,” President Packer taught, “it is a voice that one feels, more than one hears.”11

“Thou hast received instruction of my Spirit.” Because the Spirit communicates in quiet and subtle ways, we can receive revelation and not even know it. The Lord explained to Oliver Cowdery, “As often as thou hast inquired thou hast received instruction of my Spirit. If it had not been so, thou wouldst not have come to the place where thou art at this time” (Doctrine and Covenants 6:14). The Lord was guiding him all along, but he didn’t recognize it at the time. Only in hindsight, when the Lord pointed it out, could he look back and see the Lord’s guidance. Likewise, we are also “living in the revelation”12 and may not recognize the Spirit until after He has guided us.

“I reflected on it again and again.” Joseph Smith described an experience with the Spirit he had while searching the scriptures, stating that a verse “seemed to enter with great force into every feeling of my heart. I reflected on it again and again” (Joseph Smith–History 1:12). We too can identify the Spirit when scripture verses and prophetic teachings touch our hearts and inspire us to reread and ponder them.

“Line upon line.” Although we sometimes expect revelation to come all at once, the Lord has explained, “I will give unto the children of men line upon line, precept upon precept, here a little and there a little” (2 Nephi 28:30). In other words, the Lord’s preferred method is to give incremental revelation, little by little, like seeing the gradual light of a sunrise rather than seeing light all at once after turning on a light.13 Often, this revelation is only recognized when viewed in the aggregate.

The Lord’s preferred method is to give incremental revelation, little by little, like seeing the gradual light of a sunrise.

“Leadeth to do good.” Some wonder if a prompting to do good is from the Spirit or just their own thoughts. Jesus Christ answered this when He taught Hyrum Smith how to recognize His Spirit: “Put your trust in that Spirit which leadeth to do good … ; and this is my Spirit” (Doctrine and Covenants 11:12). We should assume that spiritual promptings to do good are from the Spirit, and we should act on them.

“Be still and know that I am God.” Sometimes the Lord does not respond through His Spirit as quickly as we expect. This can be difficult and requires us to exercise faith in His direction to “be still and know that I am God” (Doctrine and Covenants 101:16). President Nelson explained: “There may be times when you feel as though the heavens are closed. But I promise that as you continue to be obedient, expressing gratitude for every blessing the Lord gives you, and as you patiently honor the Lord’s timetable, you will be given the knowledge and understanding you seek.”14 When we experience this divine silence, we should remember, as President Oaks has taught, “that the Lord will speak to us through the Spirit in His own time and in His own way. … We wait upon the Lord for His revelation.”15

Although these descriptions are helpful, they are ultimately still inadequate. As President Packer explained: “We do not have the words (even the scriptures do not have words) which perfectly describe the Spirit. The scriptures generally use the word voice, which does not exactly fit. These delicate, refined spiritual communications are not seen with our eyes, nor heard with our ears.”16 In the end, recognizing the Spirit is like tasting salt: difficult to describe in words but recognizable once you have personally experienced it.17

This is why we must learn to recognize the Spirit for ourselves. While we cannot force spiritual experiences, we can create a climate for them to happen. The Lord Jesus Christ has revealed some of the small and simple things we can do to learn to hear Him speak to us through His Spirit so we can better recognize that spiritual influence whenever He speaks to us.

Scriptures. The Lord Jesus Christ revealed that we can hear His spiritual voice speaking to us when we study the scriptures. He said:

“These words are not of men, … but of me; …

“For it is my voice which speaketh them unto you; for they are given by my Spirit unto you, and by my power you can read them … ;

“Wherefore, you can testify that you have heard my voice” (Doctrine and Covenants 18:34–36).

Explaining this principle, Elder Bednar taught: “One of the ways that I can hear Him is in the scriptures. The scriptures are the pre-recorded voice of the Lord. It is not hearing an audible voice per se, although that can happen. It is hearing the scriptures in a feeling—a feeling in my mind, a feeling in my heart. For me, the scriptures are key in receiving and recognizing those thoughts and feelings.”18

Temple. President Nelson taught that “we can also hear Him in the temple. The house of the Lord is a house of learning. … There we learn how to part the veil and communicate more clearly with heaven.”19 The Prophet Joseph Smith prayed for us to be able to learn to recognize the Spirit more fully in the temple when he prayed “that all those who shall worship in this house … may grow up in thee, and receive a fulness of the Holy Ghost” (Doctrine and Covenants 109:14–15). When we consistently worship in the temple, we gain experience feeling the Spirit and we grow in our capacity to recognize His voice in our lives.

When we consistently worship in the temple, we gain experience feeling the Spirit and we grow in our capacity to recognize His voice.

Prophets. “Finally,” taught President Nelson, “we hear Him as we heed the words of prophets, seers, and revelators.”20 As we regularly listen to the messages of our living prophets and apostles and act on their counsel, we invite the Holy Ghost to teach us. This is another important source of experience with the Spirit that can help us recognize His influence.

In addition, we can pray sincerely, serve faithfully in the Church, record spiritual impressions, and worthily partake of the sacrament. By doing these things with faith in Jesus Christ, the Spirit will come, and we will recognize Him by the descriptions of scripture, become familiar with His promptings by our own experience, and more confidently recognize His influence in all areas of our lives. “By learning the Spirit of God and understanding it, you may grow into the principle of revelation, until you become perfect in Christ Jesus”21 and obtain “the mind of Christ” (1 Corinthians 2:16).

Notes

1. Russell M. Nelson, “Hear Him,” Liahona, May 2020, 90.
2. See Russell M. Nelson, “Revelation for the Church, Revelation for Our Lives,” Liahona, May 2018, 95.
3. As quoted in David A. Bednar, “Quick to Observe,” Liahona, Dec. 2006, 20.
4. Similarly, the Apostle Paul taught that the “fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace” (Galatians 5:22).
5. Richard G. Scott, “Using the Supernal Gift of Prayer,” Liahona, May 2007, 10.
6. David A. Bednar, “Teach Them to Understand” (Ricks College campus education week devotional, June 4, 1998), byui.edu.
7. Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Joseph Smith (2007), 132.
8. Dallin H. Oaks, “In His Own Time, In His Own Way,” Liahona, Aug. 2013, 28.
9. Richard G. Scott, “Using the Supernal Gift of Prayer,” 9.
10. “Although its impact can be incredibly powerful, it most often comes quietly as a still, small voice” (Quentin L. Cook, “The Blessing of Continuing Revelation to Prophets and Personal Revelation to Guide Our Lives,” Liahona, May 2020, 99).
11. Boyd K. Packer, “The Candle of the Lord,” Ensign, Jan. 1983, 52.
12. David A. Bednar, in “Evening with a General Authority—Elder Bednar” (video), Feb. 2020, ChurchofJesusChrist.org.
13. See David A. Bednar, “The Spirit of Revelation,” Liahona, May 2011, 88.
14. Russell M. Nelson, “Revelation for the Church, Revelation for Our Lives,” 95–96.
15. Dallin H. Oaks, “In His Own Time, In His Own Way,” 24, 26.
16. Boyd K. Packer, “The Candle of the Lord,” 52.
17. See Boyd K. Packer, “The Candle of the Lord,” 51–52.
18. David A. Bednar, “Hear Him’ in Your Heart and in Your Mind,” Inspiration (blog), Apr. 21, 2020, ChurchofJesusChrist.org.
19. Russell M. Nelson, “Hear Him,” 90.
20. Russell M. Nelson, “Hear Him,” 90.
21. Teachings: Joseph Smith, 132; see also Russell M. Nelson, “Revelation for the Church, Revelation for Our Lives,” 95.


https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/inspiration/how-do-i-recognize-the-spirit?lang=eng

Tuesday, March 14, 2023

 "Nothing is more liberating, more ennobling, or more crucial to our individual progression than is a regular, daily focus on repentance. Repentance is not an event; it is a process. It is the key to happiness and peace of mind."

- Russell M. Nelson, President of the Church, "We Can Do Better and Be Better," General Conference, April 2019

https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2019/04/36nelson?lang=eng 

Sunday, June 19, 2022

"every one of our Heavenly Father’s children, on both sides of the veil, deserves to hear the message of the restored gospel of Jesus Christ"

My dear young brothers and sisters, these surely are the latter days, and the Lord is hastening His work to gather Israel. That gathering is the most important thing taking place on earth today. Nothing else compares in magnitude, nothing else compares in importance, nothing else compares in majesty. And if you choose to, if you want to, you can be a big part of it. You can be a big part of something big, something grand, something majestic!

When we speak of the gathering, we are simply saying this fundamental truth: every one of our Heavenly Father’s children, on both sides of the veil, deserves to hear the message of the restored gospel of Jesus Christ. They decide for themselves if they want to know more."


- President Russell M. Nelson, "Hope of Israel," New Era, Aug 2018

https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/new-era/2018/08-se/hope-of-israel?lang=eng

Saturday, June 18, 2022

What in you is merely casualness may become hostility in your children

 "A very real danger of not enthusiastically supporting Children and Youth is the unintended message we would send to our children that the Church is a buffet where we can simply pick and choose which practices and commandments we want to follow and somehow opt out of the rest without consequence.

"Elder Neal A. Maxwell (1926–2004) of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles powerfully taught, 'What in you is merely casualness about Christianity may, in your children, become hostility; for what you have not defended, your children may reject angrily.'"

Steven J. Lund, Young Men General President, Liahona, March 2022. quoting Neal A. Maxwell, Neal A. Maxwell, “Why Not Now?,” Ensign, Nov. 1974, 12.


https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/liahona/2022/03/united-states-and-canada-section/how-the-children-and-youth-program-strengthens-families?lang=eng

Neal A. Maxwell, “Why Not Now?,” October 1974 general conference, https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/1974/10/why-not-now?lang=eng 

Children and Youth program improves mental health

 “The best way to help youth improve their mental health is by engaging them in Children and Youth because of the consistent emphasis on growth in a variety of areas.

“Children who understand the wonders of the covenant path will not be looking for off-ramps. Through Primary and Children and Youth, the covenants and the milestones will be clear to them, especially when life gets confusing.”

Dr. Sheldon Martin, mental health expert interviewed about the Children and Youth program, as quoted in "How the Children and Youth Program Strengthens Families" by By Steven J. Lund, Young Men General President, Liahona, Mar 2022


https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/liahona/2022/03/united-states-and-canada-section/how-the-children-and-youth-program-strengthens-families?lang=eng

Friday, May 20, 2022

Home-centered, Church-supported curriculum will dramatically change families

 "The new home-centered, Church-supported integrated curriculum has the potential to unleash the power of families, as each family follows through conscientiously and carefully to transform their home into a sanctuary of faith. I promise that as you diligently work to remodel your home into a center of gospel learning, over time your Sabbath days will truly be a delight. Your children will be excited to learn and to live the Savior’s teachings, and the influence of the adversary in your life and in your home will decrease. Changes in your family will be dramatic and sustaining."

President Russell M. Nelson, President of the Church, "Becoming Exemplary Latter-day Saints," General Conference, Oct 2018, https://abn.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2018/10/becoming-exemplary-latter-day-saints?lang=eng

The purpose of gospel habits is primarily to receive the Holy Ghost

 "everything the Savior’s gospel teaches us to do and become is intended to bless us with the companionship of the Holy Ghost.

"Consider the reasons we pray and study the scriptures. Yes, we yearn to communicate in prayer with Heavenly Father in the name of His Son. And yes, we desire to obtain the light and knowledge available in the standard works. But please remember that these holy habits primarily are ways whereby we always remember Heavenly Father and His Beloved Son and are prerequisites to the ongoing companionship of the Holy Ghost.

"Reflect on the reasons we worship in the house of the Lord and in our Sabbath meetings. Yes, we serve our kindred dead in the temple—and our families and friends in the wards and branches in which we live. And yes, we enjoy the righteous sociality we find among our brothers and sisters. But we primarily gather together in unity to seek the blessings of and instruction from the Holy Ghost.

"Praying, studying, gathering, worshipping, serving, and obeying are not isolated and independent items on a lengthy gospel checklist of things to do. Rather, each of these righteous practices is an important element in an overarching spiritual quest to fulfill the mandate to receive the Holy Ghost. The commandments from God we obey and the inspired counsel from Church leaders we follow principally focus upon obtaining the companionship of the Spirit. Fundamentally, all gospel teachings and activities are centered on coming unto Christ by receiving the Holy Ghost in our lives."

Elder David A. Bednar, Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, "Receive the Holy Ghost," General Conference, Oct 2010, https://abn.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2010/10/receive-the-holy-ghost?lang=eng